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Virtual Sex – More Satisfying Than Real Sex?
If lately we prefer to go shopping, read newspapers, watch TV shows and movies, order food, make online reservations for flight tickets or communicate with our friends through the Internet, why shouldn’t we have sex the same way?
A recent study has shown that the number of people who prefer virtual sex to real sex, spending hours in front of the computer to fulfill their erotic fantasies has considerably got higher. From this point of view this trend’s advantages and disadvantages have been analyzed, and the opinions are shared. There are couples who have broken up because one of the partners had become addicted to online pornography, and there are couples who, if the Internet hadn’t been invented, would have been very unhappy or, better yet, wouldn’t have existed at all.
The survey taken with 4000 readers of a famous British magazine indicated that a quarter of them used the Internet to cheat on their couple partner, and 80% accessed sites with explicit pornographic content.
One out of three participants admitted to have used the webcam to initiate sexual relations, and 10% declared that they had sex with more than 11 partners, all met online.
According to the same study, one out of two women is accessing the Internet to watch soft porn scenes, and three out of four men prefer hardcore pornography. Two thirds of them declared that women know the reason for which their partner is often accessing the Internet, and one out of three admits that he is addicted to virtual pornography – three times more than in women’s cases. Read the rest of this entry »
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Is Virtual Sex Cheating?
Being a technophobe, virtual sex has never been my thing. So you can imagine my surprise while at a sex tradeshow, there was a booth selling software for animating virtual characters into realistic sex positions.
I had no idea that virtual sex had become so popular. It led me to believe the stigma of online sex has shifted to being somewhat acceptable for the average person.
What is virtual sex you ask? It is when two or more people exchange digital information (including text messages, still pictures, video, audio, or some combination) with the intention of sexual arousal. Some would consider looking at pornography or playing a sexually explicit computer game to be a form of virtual sex.
Not knowing and curious, I took a small poll and asked people what they thought about virtual sex. It was a unanimous opinion: virtual sex was a form of cheating.
They also assumed there was something wrong or missing in a relationship in order for an individual to turn to sex on the internet. Or, if single, the individual was lonely and didn’t have the social skills to meet people in person.
Of course, these two stereotypes are true. However, it never occurred to any of them that internet sex could be a healthy sexual outlet for someone in a stable, happy relationship.
Perhaps it’s because we can only envision faceless predators that are eager and waiting to take advantage of us if we go into a chat room. Or feel the internet is so addictive that people can easily succumb to a world of non reality. Read the rest of this entry »
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Sex Education And Children
The beginnings of sexual awareness
“Daddy, why is the sky blue?” “Mummy, where does the sun go at night?” And then suddenly, like a bolt from the blue – “Mummy, where do babies come from?” This question usually leaves parents squirming with embarrassment and trying to pass the buck to the other parent. Teaching children the facts of life, telling them about the birds and the bees, is something that most parents are not very comfortable with. Actually, this is a very narrow view of sex education. It is not just about having an embarrassing, private talk with your child or giving them a book or their being given a lecture in school complete with diagrams. Sex does not begin and end with intercourse. Intercourse could be said to be the most intimate way in which men and women relate to each other. However, it is merely one aspect of the relationship between men and women. In fact, children are learning about sexuality from the time they can spot the difference between boys and girls. They also get cues from the different ways in which parents relate to sons and daughters and the way in which parents interact with each other. Thus, children whose parents have a bad marriage will find it very difficult to contemplate that sexual intercourse is built on love and mutual respect.
“Where do babies come from?”
Parents can expect the ‘dreaded’ question about the origins of babies around the age of three. The question stems from natural curiosity. Parents should keep in mind that a three-year-old’s level of understanding is quite simplistic. The child is too young to understand the concept of sexuality. The child will probably be satisfied if the mother says that the baby grows in a special place in her body called the uterus or womb and comes out after nine months. The next question is probably going to be – “How did the baby get in?” The only way a child is aware of about how things get in is through eating. Thus, a simple answer explaining that the baby grows from a tiny seed implanted in the uterus should suffice. If children want to know the father’s role in the process, mothers can explain that the father put the seed inside the mother. As for how the babies get out, children can be told that once the baby has grown enough inside the mother it comes out from a special opening called the vagina. It may be a good idea to specify that this opening is different from those for urination and defecation. Read the rest of this entry »
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